{"id":27,"date":"2026-06-15T11:06:24","date_gmt":"2026-06-15T11:06:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tekvo.online\/?p=27"},"modified":"2026-06-15T13:36:23","modified_gmt":"2026-06-15T13:36:23","slug":"make-your-life-better-by-saying-thank-you-in-these-7-situations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tekvo.online\/?p=27","title":{"rendered":"Make Your Life Better by Saying Thank You in These 7 Situations"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>I don&#8217;t say \u201cThank You\u201d as often as I should and I doubt I&#8217;m the only one.&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, I&#8217;m starting to believe that \u201cThank You\u201d is the most under-appreciated and under-used phrase on the planet. It is appropriate in nearly any situation and it is a better response than most of the things we say. Let&#8217;s cover 7 common situations when we say all sorts of things, but should say \u201cThank You\u201d instead.<a href=\"https:\/\/jamesclear.com\/say-thank-you#\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">1. Say \u201cThank You\u201d when you&#8217;re receiving a compliment.<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We often ruin compliments by devaluing the statement or acting overly humble. Internally, you might think this prevents you from appearing arrogant or smug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The problem is that by deflecting the praise of a genuine compliment, you don&#8217;t acknowledge the person who was nice enough to say something. Simply saying \u201cThank You\u201d fully acknowledges the person who made the compliment and allows you to enjoy the moment as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: \u201cYour dress looks great.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:&nbsp;<em><strong>\u201cOh, this old thing? I&#8217;ve had it for years.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:&nbsp;<em><strong>\u201cThank you. I&#8217;m glad you like it.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: \u201cWow! 20 points tonight. You played really well in the game.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:\u00a0<em><strong>\u201cYeah, but I missed that wide-open shot in the 3rd quarter.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:\u00a0<em><strong>\u201cThank you. It was a good night.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: <em>\u201cYou killed your presentation today!\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:\u00a0<em><strong>\u201cDid I? I felt so nervous up there. I&#8217;m glad it looked alright.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:\u00a0<em><strong>\u201cThank you. I&#8217;m happy it went well.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is something empowering about fully accepting a compliment. When you deflect praise, you can&#8217;t really own it. When you just say \u201cThank You,\u201d you let the weight of the compliment sink in and become yours. Saying \u201cThank You\u201d gives your mind permission to be built up by the compliments you receive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Getting compliments should be fun and enjoyable, but we often ruin the experience. There\u2019s no need to sabotage compliments that come your way. Accept them with grace and enjoy the moment.<a href=\"https:\/\/jamesclear.com\/say-thank-you#\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Say \u201cThank You\u201d when you\u2019re running late.<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Being late is the worst. It&#8217;s stressful for the person who is running late and it&#8217;s disrespectful to the person who is waiting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It might seem strange to thank someone for dealing with your hassle, but that&#8217;s exactly the correct response. Most people stumble in the door and say, \u201cSorry I&#8217;m late.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The problem is this response still makes the situation about you. Sorry,&nbsp;<em>I&#8217;m<\/em>&nbsp;late. Saying \u201cThank You\u201d turns the tables and acknowledges the sacrifice the other person made by waiting. Thank&nbsp;<em>you<\/em>&nbsp;for waiting.<a href=\"https:\/\/jamesclear.com\/say-thank-you#\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: You walk in the door 14 minutes late.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:&nbsp;<em>\u201cSo sorry I\u2019m late. Traffic was insane out there.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:&nbsp;<em>\u201cThank you for your patience.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When we make a mistake, someone else often makes a sacrifice. Our default response is to apologize for our failure, but the better approach is to praise their patience and loyalty. Thank them for what they did despite your error.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">3. Say \u201cThank You\u201d when you&#8217;re comforting someone.<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When someone comes to you with bad news, it can be awkward. You want to be a good friend, but most people don&#8217;t know what to say. I know I&#8217;ve felt that way before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Often times, we think it&#8217;s a good idea to add a silver lining to the problem. \u201cWell, at least you have\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What we fail to realize is that it doesn&#8217;t matter if you don&#8217;t know what to say. All you really need is to be present and thank them for trusting you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: Your co-worker&#8217;s mother passed away recently.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:&nbsp;<em>\u201cAt least you have a lot of fond memories to hold onto.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:&nbsp;<em>\u201cThank you for sharing that with me. I know this is a hard time for you.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: Your brother lost his job.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:&nbsp;<em>\u201cAt least you have your health.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:&nbsp;<em>\u201cThank you for sharing this with me. I&#8217;m here to support you.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: Your friend&#8217;s pet just died.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:&nbsp;<em>\u201cAt least they had a long and happy life.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:&nbsp;<em>\u201cThank you for sharing that with me. I&#8217;m here for you.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In times of suffering, we don&#8217;t need to hear words to ease the pain as much as we need someone to share our pain. When you don&#8217;t know what to say, just say \u201cThank You\u201d and be there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">4. Say \u201cThank You\u201d when you&#8217;re receiving helpful feedback.<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Feedback can be very helpful, but we rarely see it that way. Whether it is an unflattering performance review from your boss or an email from an unhappy customer, the standard reaction is to get defensive. That&#8217;s a shame because the correct response is to simply say, \u201cThank You\u201d and use the information to improve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: \u201cThis work isn&#8217;t good enough. I thought you would do better.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:&nbsp;<em>\u201cYou don&#8217;t understand. Here&#8217;s what really happened.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:&nbsp;<em>\u201cThank you for expecting more of me.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: \u201cI bought your product last week and it already broke. I am not happy with this experience.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:&nbsp;<em>\u201cHow did you use it? We made it very clear in our terms and conditions that the product is not designed to work in certain conditions.<\/em>\u201c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:&nbsp;<em>\u201cThank you for sharing your thoughts. Please know we are committed to becoming better. Can you share more details about the issue?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nobody likes to fail, but\u00a0failure is just a data point. Respond to helpful feedback with thanks and use it to become better.<a href=\"https:\/\/jamesclear.com\/say-thank-you#\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">5. Say \u201cThank You\u201d when you&#8217;re receiving unfair criticism<\/span><\/strong>.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes criticism isn&#8217;t helpful at all. It&#8217;s just vindictive and mean. I&#8217;ve written about\u00a0how to deal with haters\u00a0previously, but one of the best approaches is to just say thank you and move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you thank someone for criticizing you, it immediately neutralizes the power of their statements. If it\u2019s not a big deal to you, then it can\u2019t grow into a larger argument.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: \u201cThis might be good advice for beginners, but anyone who knows what they are doing will find this useless.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:&nbsp;<em>\u201cWell, clearly, I wrote this for beginners. This might be a surprise, but not everything was written with you in mind.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:&nbsp;<em>\u201cThank you for sharing your opinion. I\u2019ll try to improve next time.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: \u201cYour statement is the dumbest thing I&#8217;ve read all week.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:\u00a0<em><strong>\u201cYou&#8217;re an idiot. Let me tell you why\u2026\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:\u00a0<em><strong>\u201cThank you for the feedback. I still have a lot to learn.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Releasing the need to win every argument is a sign of maturity. Someone on the internet said something wrong? So what. Win the argument by the way you live your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">6. Say \u201cThank You\u201d when someone gives you unsolicited advice.<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This shows up a lot in the gym. Everybody has an opinion about what your technique should look like. I think most people are just trying to be helpful, but hearing someone&#8217;s opinion about you when you didn&#8217;t ask for it can be annoying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One time, someone pointed out some flaws in my squat technique in a video I posted online. I responded by sarcastically asking if he had a video of himself doing it correctly. Somewhere deep in my mind, I assumed that if I reminded him that his technique wasn&#8217;t perfect, then I would feel better about the fact that mine wasn&#8217;t perfect either. That&#8217;s an unnecessary and defensive response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The better approach? Just say \u201cThank You.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Example: \u201cYou know, you should really keep your hips back when you do that exercise.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Instead of:&nbsp;<em>\u201cOh really? Do you have a video of yourself doing it so I can see it done correctly?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try saying:&nbsp;<em>\u201cThank you for the help.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pointing out others faults doesn&#8217;t remove your own. Thank people for raising your self-awareness, even if it was unsolicited.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">7. Say \u201cThank You\u201d when you&#8217;re not sure if you should thank someone.<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When in doubt, just say thank you. There is no downside. Are you honestly worried about showing too much gratitude to the people in your life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201cShould I send a Thank You card in this situation?\u201d <\/strong>Yes, you should.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201cShould I tip him?\u201d<\/strong> If you don&#8217;t, at least say thank you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Say thank you, more often.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t say \u201cThank You\u201d as often as I should and I doubt I&#8217;m the only one.&#8221; In fact, I&#8217;m starting to believe that \u201cThank You\u201d is the most under-appreciated and under-used phrase on the planet. 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